Has your marriage gone from better to worse?

-          “He doesn’t spend time with me anymore and works late just to avoid me.”

-          “I avoid her because she complains all the time and doesn't appreciate all I do for her”

-          “He never listens to me or even tries to romance me anymore--but still expects sex.  He can forget it!”

 

Remember when you were in love like the couple on the beach?  You couldn't’t wait to say your vows and start your married life together.  Now you’d rather not talk to each other. 

 

But deep down inside, most couples really do want to talk again--and love again.  You had good times in the past and would love to have them again now and in the future. 

 

I know that most couples face struggles from time to time.  When couples vow to love each other for better or for worse, they can't imagine how the “worse” times can feel so intolerable.  It’s time to get better.  And the sooner the better. 

 

You might not believe it now, but your love can grow again.

Many couples divorce because they assume their relationship cannot get better and they never ask for professional help.  When your car needs maintenance or repairs, you don't take it straight to the junkyard.  You take it to a mechanic to get it fixed.  Why not do the same for your marriage?  You may think you have irreconcilable differences. But I've seen many couples discover that these differences can be changed.  The irreconcilable can become reconcilable.   
 

I'd like to help you get back the relationship you once had--
and make it even better this time. 

Most couples come to marriage therapy with doubts that it will help. You may have serious doubts yourself.  But I've seen many couples absolutely surprised at the changes that happen.  Mountains of resentment and anger can change to trust and affection again.  Couples that haven't touched each other for months show affection again.  Couples that have been to hell and back are glad that they are finally back--yet even better this time.  Misunderstandings can be cleared up.  Past offenses, including affairs, can be forgiven and left behind.  My goal is to not only restore your marriage, but to make it better than it was in the beginning.  

I'd like to help you.

My name is Richard Rupp and I am a marriage counselor in Pasadena, California.  I've counseled couples for over twenty years and helped husbands and wives come together again.   

 

If you would like to get over past hurts, resolve differences, and love and respect your spouse again, then I encourage you to try couples counseling.  Let's work toward restoring the love and happiness in your marriage.

 

Get started by giving me a call to discuss your needs and to schedule an initial appointment. Your first step to a better future is just a phone call away. 

 

I look forward to meeting you and hearing your story. 

Let's see how your marriage can go from worse to better than ever.

With hope for you, 
Rick Rupp
 626-449-1419  

595 E. Colorado Blvd.,
Suite 509
Pasadena, CA  91101

Take the Couples Questionaire and bring out the best in your marriage again. 

Print out the Seven Best questions below and answer together with your spouse.  Make it a date and talk about over dinner or coffee. 

1.       Three reasons why I was attracted to my spouse:

2.       My two best memories together with my spouse:

3.       Two best strengths of our relationship are:

4.       Two things that my spouse does for me that I appreciate:

5.       Two things my spouse does that are sexual/romantic turn-ons for me:

6.       One kiss that I most fondly remember was:

7.       One dream for our future together is: